Behind the Dad Jokes: An Analysis of Fatherhood in Sitcoms

As a self-proclaimed sitcom connoisseur, family-centered shows are the way that I fall asleep at night. Modern Family, The Middle, and Full House are constantly in rotation. Each of these shows has different family dynamics, which represent how the media treats men compared to women in parenting roles. Although most of these shows are comedies, they reflect everyday scenarios and hit close to home for many viewers.

The most classic example of the “sitcom dad” from modern television is Phil Dunphy from the 2009 ABC comedy Modern Family. Phil, a realtor and amateur magician, is married to Claire, who serves as a foil to her husband’s easygoing and joking demeanor. Claire runs the household, works corporate jobs at times, and has to simultaneously clean up the messes of her three children and man-child husband. 

Phil Dunphy is an entertaining character for a comedy sitcom. Phil is a present father who makes many parenting mistakes and treats his children as friends instead of having authority in the household. As a result, his wife constantly has to be the bad guy who makes sure that the household maintains success. Phil constantly checks out other women without acting on these feelings. He does not ask Claire about her day or how she feels. He provides the jokes and warmth to his children without any developmental impact.

The representation of fatherhood in sitcoms has changed greatly over the years. Phil is beloved by viewers because they see a type of father that has not been widely represented in prior shows. He cares deeply about his children and understands that they are individual people with personalities and interests that differ from one another. This is different from the previous stereotypical sitcom father who worked long hours and was feared by the household.

For example, in That 70’s Show, the father character of Red was disconnected from his children. He loved his wife but had very few positive interactions with his children. He did not know them as individuals. As such, the children (who were teenagers and early adults throughout the show) only went to their mom with their problems or when they needed emotional support. 

Phil Dunphy is not feared by his children. He spends ample amounts of time with them because he is not positively supporting the household. He makes the majority of money, but he does not have the ability to clean or listen to his wife. In one episode, Claire and Phil fight over Phil never listening to her suggestions (but played for comedy as it was about a wedge salad). As a parent, Phil provides emotional connection, but does not play an equal role in household contributions compared to his wife. As such, Claire has a difficult relationship with all three of her children, but specifically her older two girls. 

Phil is well-loved because he is a funny character. Loving a character like Phil has its impacts towards society as a whole. Women tend to be with men who provide some level of emotional connection, but do not provide the same stable role. The more representation of good fathers and bad husbands will only encourage women to be with men who do not treat them as well as they deserve. Fatherhood has redesigned its structure in sitcoms, but still plays into harmful media-based stereotypes that cause everyday women to deem these actions as acceptable.

About the author: Mia Lange is a first-year student majoring in public relations and minoring in sociology.

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